Berhalter-Gate Revealed

On This Day in 2023, Berhalter Embroiled in Blackmail Scandal After World Cup Progress

On January 3, the United States Soccer Federation announced it had opened an investigation into men's national team coach Gregg Berhalter over a 31-year-old domestic violence incident, plunging American soccer into crisis just weeks after what many had considered a successful World Cup campaign. The probe, triggered by what Berhalter characterized as a blackmail attempt during the tournament in Qatar, revealed that someone had contacted federation officials threatening to "take him down" with information about a 1991 altercation in which the then-18-year-old Berhalter had kicked his girlfriend—now his wife of 25 years—in the legs outside a college bar. What could have been a straightforward contract renewal process following the team's round-of-16 appearance instead devolved into a soap opera that exposed deep fractures within American soccer's most prominent families, left the coaching position vacant at the dawn of a World Cup cycle, and raised uncomfortable questions about how personal vendettas, institutional dysfunction, and social media pile-ons had converged to paralyze a program that couldn't afford distraction with the 2026 tournament approaching.

The scandal's roots stretched back to the World Cup itself, where Berhalter had made the fateful decision to marginalize Gio Reyna, the 20-year-old Borussia Dortmund midfielder who was among the team's most talented players but had, according to Berhalter, displayed poor attitude and insufficient effort in training. Reyna played just 52 minutes across four matches as the Americans advanced from their group, then lost 3-1 to the Netherlands, a result that felt disappointing given the team's earlier promise but hardly catastrophic for a squad that fielded the youngest starting lineups in the tournament. The tension might have remained private—internal disputes between coaches and players were hardly unprecedented—except that Berhalter chose to discuss the situation publicly three days after the elimination, speaking at a leadership conference in New York on December 6. Without naming Reyna directly, he told the audience of roughly 200 people that the team had "a player that was clearly not meeting expectations on and off the field" and that staff had deliberated "for hours" about sending him home, going so far as to prepare to "book a plane ticket home—that's how extreme it was."

The comments, which Berhalter believed were off the record, were subsequently posted online and immediately identified Reyna as the unnamed player. On December 8, Reyna issued an Instagram apology, acknowledging he had "acted immaturely" about his playing time, but pointedly criticized Berhalter for violating the team's supposed code that said issues would remain "in-house." Behind the scenes, the situation escalated rapidly. On December 11, Danielle Reyna—Gio's mother, a former U.S. women's international, and college roommate and best friend of Rosalind Berhalter—contacted sporting director Earnie Stewart to express her outrage that her son was being publicly shamed while, as she saw it, Berhalter had committed far worse transgressions at the same age and been forgiven. In that conversation, she shared details of the 1991 Chapel Hill incident, information she possessed because she had supported Rosalind through its aftermath three decades earlier. Danielle would later insist she had acted to protect her son from unwarranted social media attacks and hadn't expected the information to trigger a formal investigation, claiming she never asked for Berhalter to be fired and didn't know anything about blackmail attempts. Her husband, Claudio Reyna—a Hall of Fame midfielder, former U.S. captain, and Berhalter's high school and national team teammate who had served as best man at the coach's wedding—separately acknowledged complaining to Stewart and general manager Brian McBride about his son's treatment. However, he denied making any threats.

U.S. Soccer immediately hired the Atlanta law firm Alston & Bird to investigate the 1991 incident, which Berhalter publicly confirmed in a lengthy statement on January 3. He described meeting his "soulmate" in the fall of 1991, four months before an alcohol-fueled argument outside a bar escalated into physical violence when he kicked her in the legs. Berhalter wrote that he had immediately apologized, informed his family and friends, and voluntarily sought counseling—though notably, law enforcement was never involved. He and Rosalind had reconciled seven months later, married in 1997, and built what they described as a loving 25-year partnership with four children. The statement framed the disclosure as necessary because "an individual" had contacted U.S. Soccer during the World Cup claiming to possess damaging information, forcing Berhalter to come forward rather than allow the threat to linger. The federation's announcement noted it had also uncovered "potential inappropriate behavior towards multiple members of our staff by individuals outside of our organization." It expanded its investigation accordingly, though it declined to elaborate on what that behavior entailed or who was responsible.

The revelations shattered relationships that had endured for decades. Berhalter and Claudio Reyna had grown up playing together in New Jersey, starred on club teams coached by Claudio's father, attended the same high school, and represented the United States at the 2002 and 2006 World Cups. Rosalind Berhalter and Danielle Reyna had been inseparable at North Carolina, where both played soccer and forged a bond that survived the trauma of that night in Chapel Hill. The situation grew even more bizarre when Berhalter appeared at a Harvard Business Review event on January 5 and said his "heart aches" for his wife because "it was her story to tell, if she chose to or not," a comment that underscored how the personal had become painfully public through forces beyond their control.

The immediate fallout left U.S. Soccer in a state of organizational paralysis. Berhalter's contract had expired on December 31, and while he remained a candidate for renewal—sporting director Stewart emphasized he was "still under consideration"—no decision could be made until the investigation concluded and a separate performance review was completed. The federation announced that assistant coach Anthony Hudson would oversee the team's January training camp and friendlies against Serbia and Colombia, though those matches would feature only MLS-based players since the camp fell outside FIFA's international window. The investigation's timeline remained unclear, Stewart's future with the federation was uncertain, and the messy entanglement of personal relationships made any outcome politically fraught—keeping Berhalter would alienate the Reynas and potentially complicate Gio's future participation, while firing him over a decades-old incident he'd addressed through counseling risked appearing reactionary.

What made the scandal particularly agonizing was its timing. The United States had just completed a World Cup campaign that, while falling short of expectations, demonstrated genuine progress—a young team had competed hard, defeated Iran in a must-win group-stage match, and showed tactical cohesion that contrasted sharply with the chaos of the 2017 qualification failure. Berhalter's 37-12-11 (WDL)  record included victories over Mexico in the 2021 Nations League and Gold Cup finals, and players had repeatedly praised the "brotherhood" culture he'd cultivated. Yet within weeks, that narrative of steady improvement had been overwhelmed by dysfunction that felt uniquely American in its blend of nepotism, social media toxicity, and institutional incompetence. As the calendar turned to 2023 with no coach, no timeline, and no clarity about whether the program's most prominent family feud could be reconciled, one question dominated: whether American soccer would emerge from this mess focused on the 2026 World Cup it would co-host, or whether it had squandered precious months relitigating the past while better-organized programs moved purposefully toward the future.